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Caryatids and Queens April 8, 2014

Femininity is universally associated with beauty, softness, tenderness, receptivity, relationship, and caring. While some equate these qualities with weakness, Spirit Warriors know they make us stronger than we ever imagined possible. Of the many symbols suggesting this kind of strength, none speaks as strongly to me as the caryatid.

Caryatids are gigantic columns or pillars in the form of beautiful, fully draped females. A very old architectural device, they were originally used to support immense entablatures in sacred public buildings. In ancient times it was said that seven priestesses founded major oracle shrines. These priestesses had different names in various parts of the world. In the Middle East they were known as the Seven Pillars of Wisdom, hence their common usage as columns holding up temple roofs. These same pillars are referred to in Proverbs 9:1: “Wisdom [Sophia] hath builded her house, she hath hewn out her seven pillars.” On the Acropolis at Athens, caryatids are associated with the strong and independent goddess, Artemis Caryatis, from whom they get their name.

My first glimpse of caryatids at the British Museum filled me with awe and wonder. In them I saw feminine beauty, gentleness, independence, spirituality and mystery blended with majestic, connected, immovable strength. I was looking at a manifestation of, and metaphor for, the Queen archetype. This is a feminine aspect of power and strength with which every psyche is furnished regardless of gender.

A defining characteristic of the caryatid’s strength is her queenly way of serving society. She is strong enough to support huge social structures involving a variety of people, skill levels and activities, but never takes on more than she can handle, never gets crushed under the weight of her responsibilities.

Nor does she claim godlike perfection and omnipotence for herself: no savior complex for her! She simply receives what she is strong enough to receive; contains what she is large enough to contain; gives what is hers to give. Her strength is not based on compulsions to prove anything or pretend to be something she is not, but on a clear understanding of the nature of her gifts, dimensions of her interior space, and limits of her authority.

Like caryatids, mature Queens have a sense of social responsibility. They are pillars of society who are always there to listen and understand; share in pain or joy; defend the innocent, weak, vulnerable and disenfranchised; and advance culture. They have a quiet, grounded strength that does not belittle, gossip, or betray confidences. They accept without rejecting differing opinions and protect without exploiting weakness. They do not relinquish softness; rather theirs is the softness of the lioness, not the lamb. Although receptive, they are never doormats. They nurture but never smother. Theirs is the warm and life-giving receptivity of the womb, not the cold hardness of the tomb.

Caryatids and Queens stand tall and firm with eyes wide open. With steadfast devotion and resolve they support institutions and endeavors which are in everyone’s best interest. We emulate their strength when we subordinate our ego’s will to the greater good and work for the betterment of all without betraying our personal standpoints. May we all, female and male alike, manifest more of this wise use of feminine strength.

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9 Responses to “Caryatids and Queens”

  1. Skip Conover Says:

    I hope your publisher will want to pull together several collections of this beautiful work in books. At this point you must have written 5-6 books of essays.

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    • jeanraffa Says:

      Thank you very much, my friend, for being such a stalwart and loyal supporter of my writing. It means very much to me. I might suggest the same to you, by the way. Your pieces on ArchetypeInAction (http://www.archetypeinaction.com) are wonderful and you have an amazing audience. We need more courageous, tell-it-like-it-is writers like you who are willing to stick their necks out for worthy social causes. I can’t believe how well my piece, “Why Vampires? Why Now? Has done there. The last time I looked it had over 8,000 views! That’s a pretty big deal! Here’s the link if anyone wants to see it. http://www.archetypeinaction.com/index.php/en/tools-to-change-society/55-jungian-topics/480-why-vampires-why-now

      As to your suggestion, I have over 350 original essays here now. I’ve considered waiting for a full 365 so there’d be one for every day of the year, but that would make a big book! I think I like your idea of several smaller ones better….. 🙂

      Gratefully, Jeanie

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  2. cindy Says:

    Well said. Very interesting.

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  4. southwerk Says:

    I reblogged this post as you suggested. Thanks! James Pilant

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  5. heroicheart2014 Says:

    Hi Jeanie, this post put me directly into the energy of what you are writing … thank you … a resonant counterbalance to the often disparate “modern” world we live in. Blessings, Lee

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